July, or Uki-Iviema, is the lunar month of tending to vines within Benin's cosmological framework. This month has the auspicious chance of freeing us from life’s harsh grip. Much like vines, life can stretch—curl and wrap until it suffocates us completely. This month has the potential to bestow clarity, but only to those equipped to answer a very sobering question: how ready are you to release your grip? How ready are you to really be free?
Pay attention to what entangles you. Not everything that clings to you in this growing season is a blessing. The maze of life can seem to entrap us at times, especially when we’re embarking on new journeys or trying to conjure fresh beginnings. It’s not always a linear path when we plant seeds—sometimes weeds grow alongside our wishes for a new life. This month gives us the opportunity to unwind and unbind ourselves from suffering disguised as “necessary growing pains.” Trauma is not always needed for a breakthrough. Our inner-narrative on what we believe is possible, colors our world by directly influencing our actions. Be mindful of what you believe to be true; be observant and stay committed—fight your way out and cut away the excess. This season can free you, but only if you let it.
This isn’t necessarily the best month to plant new seeds, but the energy heavily encourages nurturing the self as you choose less restriction and more alignment. Tending vines means to create adjustments, however slight they may be. This is the perfect month to discern on what needs space in your life and what’s draining your heartspace. You may feel tenderness, sensitivity, or even grief to the things you’re choosing to untangle from. Remember: whatever is lost often returns to us new forms. We will always be full and never empty—this month is no different. Have the hard conversations, be honest with yourself, stretch, and replenish yourself. Do not run from your own reflection.
For those born in July, happy birthday! You’re an observant person for those you adore; your ability to recognize patterns represents your devotion in tangible more. However, those in your life may mistake this care for being critical or hard to please. While your empathetic and connecting nature is a superpower, be mindful of internalizing other people’s guilt. It’s not your responsibility to save others from themselves. Continue dropping into your heart and remain pure hearted and kind. You understand to truly love someone, you must tell them what they need to hear; just ensure you’re always holding a mirror back to yourself as well.